Monday, September 20, 2010
We're Home!
Friday, September 17, 2010
Last Day
Sunday, September 12, 2010
We're Back! (in Kokstad, that is...)
Tuesday, September 7, 2010
Still-Had-to-Labor Day
After school, we went to the orphanage to hang out with kids for a few hours. Nicole and I were shocked by what we found. No one said a word to us when we walked in - in fact, we had to search for someone to in charge. We could have easily picked up a kid and walked out the door, and no one would have been the wiser. Once we found and introduced ourselves to the supervisor on duty, she asked a little girl to take us to a housemother. All of the kids in the orphanage are split up into 4 houses, and each house has a "mother" who is in charge of the well-being of her 15 or so children. We introduced ourselves to the first housemother and told her we were there to help the kids with homework, play with the kids, take care of babies or whatever they needed. She told us that the kids didn't have homework because of the strike (most kids haven't been in school for weeks), and they were being entertained just fine by the TV. She told us to try another house. We went through all 4 houses that way, with each housemother telling us that she didn't need us.
When we walked into the last house, all of the kids were huddled around the TV like they had been in all of the other houses. We realized, however, that we had walked right into a sex scene, followed a few seconds later by a murder scene! Mind you, these are kids ranging from 2 months to 13 years old. We asked the housemother, who was busy enjoying the TV show, if she wanted us to take the kids outside in the beautiful sunshine to play on the orphanage's playground. She grumbled at us and told us that they were fine in front of the TV. Then she got up and left. A few minutes later, we heard a baby crying from the back room. Since the housemother wasn't there, and none of the kids seemed to care, we both went back to the baby's room. Sinalo, the baby girl, is 2 months old, one of twins who were born prematurely. The poor thing had an extremely wet diaper, and had so many clothes on that she was literally dripping sweat (it was about 80 degrees outside). It was obvious from the first few minutes that Sinalo lacks proper stimulation: she doesn't respond to light, touch, or sound, and she won't follow movement with her eyes. She had had a bloody nose who knows how long ago, and blood was caked around her nose and mouth. She had a really hard time breathing. We cleaned her nose up and changed her diaper (which was way too big - the back reached her shoulders). Then we decided to play with her. After about 30 minutes, she was reacting to sounds and the tickling of her feet. She had a hard time making eye contact still, but she would follow your finger if you moved it slowly in front of her eyes. It was obvious the poor thing was in desperate need of love and attention, and it just broke my heart that she wasn't getting it.
After 30 minutes or so, she started getting really fussy, and she was sucking on anything she could get her hands on. The schedule in her room said that she was supposed to be fed every 2 hours, so it was pretty obvious that she was hungry. We brought her out to the house mom and asked if she needed to be fed, but the housemother said no. Apparently she had been fed several hours earlier, and the housemother didn't want to overfeed her for fear she would spit it all up. They are not open to any advice or criticism, but it seemed pretty obvious to us that you can't just not feed an underdeveloped baby because they have acid reflux! We highly doubt they burp her, either, because they give the babies a bottle in their crib propped up by a blanket and then let them go to sleep. The housemom then grabbed Sinalo from us, shook her a few times (without holding her head), and sat back down in front of the TV. Needless to say, we were furious.
Our plan is to continue to spend time at the orphanage for the remainder of our time here. Please pray for us and for the kids at the orphanage. It is a truly heart-wrenching experience, but these kids desperately need love.
This is Sinalo. She is 2 months old, but she is so small.
Saturday, September 4, 2010
Oink, Moo and a Cock-a-Doodle-Doo
Showing off our Snorta animals.
Thursday, September 2, 2010
The 1st Grade I Never Knew
We spent the rest of the morning helping out in the 1st grade classroom. I was assigned to one little girl, Audrey, who really struggles with reading. Nicole floated around the room helping the other kids with their questions and their reading material. For those of you who don't know, I only went to first grade for about a month before I moved to second grade (and I have no memory of what I did experience). So it was interesting to see what I missed out on!
We would have talked to the senior girls this afternoon, but they were all way behind on their studies. So, instead, we helped out in the office for the last part of the day.
The silly 1st grade girls.
Nicole read the kids a story once they finished their work.
I think we forgot to tell you that we tried a new and exciting food the other day...ostrich! Neither of us liked it much...
Tuesday, August 31, 2010
Hospice
Nicole and I had an eye-opening experience today. We met up with Kokstad's branch of Hospice, which gave us a township tour. We spent the day in Kokstad's poverty-stricken neighborhoods - "the locations" as the government calls them. The government provides housing for the people in these neighborhoods (see the picture below). Hospice brings medical treatment to the sick people living in these neighborhoods.
1 in 3 people in South Africa has HIV or AIDS. The majority of the people we saw today had HIV or AIDS (including the children). Because of their compromised immune systems, these people tend to get sick very easily. TB is a huge problem here, especially considering the small houses they share. Once one family member contracts TB, the rest of the family is likely to develop TB. Those with TB receive daily injections of medicine. Hospice also makes sure that patients on ARVs (for HIV/AIDS) have been taking their medicine twice a day, every day. If they miss even one dose, the virus is likely to grow stronger within their system.
We saw several examples of the good that Hospice is doing in the community. Several people that we ran into, who are fine now, would have been dead a few months ago if not for Hospice's medical treatment. It was very heart-wrenching to see the devastation caused by AIDS, though. So many children have been orphaned by this disease, left to be cared for by grandparents or aunts. It was even harder to see children with HIV or AIDS. It's so hard to look at them and know that they will never lead a normal life: they will always be smaller than other children and underdeveloped, and they won't live nearly as long. It's so easy to feel completely helpless - after all, there is nothing that you can do to cure them of AIDS. But so many of them have smiles on their faces and joy in their hearts. I think they understand better than any of us that this world is not our home.
Saturday, August 28, 2010
A Day on the Dam
Hanging up our laundry, yet again. Lyla, the dog that resides in that yard, decided to pull a few items off of the line today and chew them to oblivion. This is the same dog that wakes us up at o-dark-thirty (i.e. way too early). I'm practicing patience!!!
This is the biggest lake in the area. Yes, that's all of it. Apparently 3 water skiing boats are allowed out on the water at a time, but I cannot fathom how they would all fit!
The two of us by the water.
All of us girls working really hard ;)
Thursday, August 26, 2010
Back to School - Finally!
This is Sophiso, who is the cause of all misbehavior in Allen's class (well, most of it). We caught him in the act of boredom today - notice the clothespin attached to his nose :)
Tuesday, August 24, 2010
Rather Boring Day
Sunday, August 22, 2010
Sunday Outings
Nicole's brilliant idea. I, of course, was not so keen.
A section of the Lord's prayer tacked to a tree. Notice it is in both English and Afrikaans.
After we finished at the prayer garden, we went to have tea at Oma Drinie's house. Her husband, Opa Marie, just got back from Malawi. They drove up through Zimbabwe to get there, and he was telling us how corrupt the country has become. They were stopped every 100 km or so and forced to pay the officials each time, just so that they could continue! Some other friends were telling us that 1 US cent is equal to about 60 Zimbabwe dollars. Zimbabwe has the worst economy in the world right now! We also got to meet some other South African friends who had just been to Botswana. Tea time is definetely more than just a time to drink tea - it's a social event that can last hours and hours! It's going to take some more getting used to, that's for sure.
Saturday, August 21, 2010
Yesterday
Wednesday, August 18, 2010
Slowly getting used to it...
Today, Nicole and I went back to school with Allen and Gloria. We both felt like we were more in the swing of things today, and I started to feel in my element! I loved getting to work one-on-one with the kids, especially with the ones who seem to struggle. You can definetely tell that these kids don't receive a lot of love and praise, so even something as simple as a "good job!" can make their face light up! It was really encouraging, and I definetely started to feel like I was making a positive impact. The kids are so polite here (the most polite kids I have EVER seen), and they are so easy to love!
Here are some pictures of our day. There was going to be a video, but the internet doesn't want to load it. I'll put it up when I get home.
Me signing off on a student's work.
Nicole with one of the girls she got a chance to talk with today.
Nicole decided to make fresh lemonade (with the lemons from our lemon tree!)
I have had a lot of people say they enjoyed the lingo lessons, so here are a few more terms to familiarize yourself with:
a packet = a bag (either a grocery bag or a ziploc bag)
chips = either french fries or potato chips
a jersey = either a shirt or a sports jersey
a pancake = a crepe
flapjack = a pancake
tekkies (pronounced tackies) = tennis shoes
pavement = sidewalk
tar = road (a tarred road is a paved road)
just now = soon (but really, this could be anytime)
now now = right now
braai (br-eye) = BBQ
jam = either jelly or jam
jelly = jello
biscuits = cookies
If you want to get really complicated, try Afrikaans (a Dutch-English mix that sounds a lot like German) or the local tribal language!
Monday, August 16, 2010
To School Today
Nicole and I accompanied Allen and Gloria to school today. I spent the day helping the 4th, 5th & 6th grade teachers, and Nicole helped out in the 1st & 2nd and 9th & 10th grade classrooms. The school is very different from back in the states! Each student essentially teaches themselves through various workbooks, and the teachers are there to make sure the students do the work :) and help answer any questions. It was a CRAZY day! I was running around the classroom like a mad woman answering question after question, listening to students read, checking off their work, etc. The hours just flew by!
Both of us at the school. It was really cold this morning (like winter in Seattle), but warmed up to about Seattle summer weather by the afternoon.
This is one of the buildings that makes up the school.
Some kids during their version of P.E.
a robot = a traffic signal
a zebra crossing = a crosswalk (Note: zebra is pronounced zeh-bra rather than zee-bra)
a boot = the trunk of a car
a buckey = a pick-up truck
a serviette = a napkin
a nappy = a diaper
a que = the check-out line in the grocery store
bananas are pronounced bah-nawh-nas
tomatos are pronounced tow-mawh-tos (but potatos are still potatos)
ask for the toilet, not the bathroom
But no matter how much jargon you use, the kids will still laugh at you because of your American accent!
Wednesday, August 11, 2010
34 Hours to Go
On Monday night, our prayer group threw us a going away party. What an incredible feeling it is to know that so many people love you and are praying for you! Nicole and I are so very thankful for our church family, who have supported us through every step of this process. There is no way we would be going to South Africa without their support.
On Tuesday, I discovered that I had developed a sinus infection. Thankfully, I was able to get in to see the doctor right away and get a prescription for antibiotics. The pain and discomfort is slowly subsiding as I continue to take the medication. Please pray for complete healing!
We would very much appreciate your prayers as the time continues to fly by!
Saturday, July 24, 2010
Last Minute Details
As we continue to mark the days off on our calendar, please remember to pray for us! Please pray that the finances for this trip would continue to work out according to God's will, that Nicole and I would not forget to pack anything important and that God would prepare the hearts of the people we will encounter in South Africa (but especially our hearts). Please also pray for our flight times. It seems almost every other day the airlines are tweaking our flight times, leaving us very little time to go through customs in Johannesburg. Obviously, we would love to catch our flight to Durban as scheduled. However, please pray that the Lord's will would prevail and that He would protect us no matter what happens).
Thank you so much for those of you who have been praying!
Monday, March 22, 2010
Starfish
This past week, I had the opportunity to meet with the son-in-law of the woman who is mentoring me through this experience. He has been on both short and long term missions, and he had some wonderful advice to give me. One question that he asked me was, "What do you think will be the hardest thing for you while you are in South Africa?" Honestly, I hadn't thought about this. Nicole and I have talked endlessly about the amazing things we will experience, the people we will meet, and the wonderful things that God will do in our lives while we are there. But I hadn't really thought about the reality of the trip.
I think the hardest thing for me is going to be seeing the need there in Africa, and not knowing what my role is in meeting that need. There are certain things that I know about myself: I know that I love to serve people, I know that I have a heart for other people, especially children, I know that I have a heart for Africa, and thus I know that my heart is going to break for the African people when I can finally understand what life is like there.
My challenge is going to be answering the questions: How do I love and serve these people, especially these children, knowing that I cannot meet all of these needs? How do I come home and pursue my dream to become an international adoptions coordinator knowing that there are too many children for me to find homes for? How do I not let that discourage me? My answer: the same way that the boy at the beach did. One starfish at a time. Even though I can't save them all, it makes a big difference to the ones I do save.
Thursday, February 18, 2010
We are OFFICIALLY going to South Africa!
After verifying that these new dates would work for the Brittinghams, Nicole and I were able to buy our plane tickets! Yes, that's right, we bought our plane tickets today! And, somehow, God managed for us to do it for $1566.41 each. Wow. We will now be leaving Friday, August 13th (arriving in Kokstad on Saturday, August 14th) and returning on Sunday, September 19th (leaving Kokstad Saturday, September 18th).
Thank you all so much for continuing to pray for us and for this trip. It is so encouraging to see God's hand in this trip in every single step!
Sunday, February 14, 2010
Great Is Thy Faithfulness
This has been such a growing experience for me thus far. I have never before had to rely on God to bring in the money, and so far He has been so faithful! I am very excited to see how He brings in the remaining $1625 (assuming the plane tickets don't go up anymore in the near future, which is definitely something you can be praying for).
Nicole and I were also informed today that anyone interested in supporting us individually can make a donation through the church and thus receive a tax deduction. If this is something that interests you, all you need to do is write "Bri for Africa" and/or "Nicole for Africa" (whomever you would like to support) in the memo line of the check and place it in the offering plate on Sundays. You can also write "Bri for Africa" and/or "Nicole for Africa" on the blue offering envelope in which your donation is enclosed and place the envelope in the offering plate.
Thank you all so much for continuing to pray for me, Nicole and for the trip as a whole! I will try my best to update this blog as more updates come.
Tuesday, January 26, 2010
South Africa, Here I Come!
Before I forget, I must publicly admit that I am probably the worst journaler that ever existed. I am, therefore, making no promises concerning the frequency of posts on this blog. I sincerely apologize.
That being said, I have been encouraged to begin a blog to inform everyone about my trip to South Africa this summer. I will be staying in Kokstad, South Africa for 6 weeks, beginning July 16th and ending August 28th. My good friend, Nicole, and I will be working with the Brittingham's (a missionary couple from our church) and the local church in Kokstad to serve the people of South Africa!
Africa is a place that has been on my heart since I was probably 7 years old. I had always planned to go to Africa one day and serve the African people in whatever way God felt best. I am so excited that God has opened up the doors to this amazing opportunity!
Thank you all for coming along side me in this exciting time in my life! I would so appreciate your prayers in these next few months. Please pray specifically that my heart would be in the right place in the coming months and that God would work out the finances of the trip in His will. Thank you so much for your support! I will try my best to keep this blog updated as I find out more details.